Stream of Consciousness Sunday

#SOCsunday

You may have noticed, if you are a returning visitor (which Google Analytics tells me that 49.87% of you are) that the blog has undergone some renovations. Taylor has displayed stress over the loss of our teddy bears at the top of the header. They, or some other picture WILL be back. As soon as I can figure out how to not make it a huge picture at the top. But I will figure it out. Maybe. Probably. At some point. (Did you know a night of staring at  HTML code will make you lose your mind?)

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If you’re a returning visitor, you are also probably on the edge of your seat about how many followers the blog has. Or you are having a kiniption about Goole Friends Connect going away in March that you don’t even care anymore. But, if you do care, we’re up to 41 followers! Although I haven’t experienced 41 yet (don’t hate) I would imagine my Blog is feeling restless. Is THIS really what Blog wanted for him/herself? Is this ALL there is to life? Maybe that’s why a renovation was in order. Mid-life crisis and all, trying to attract new people with a streamlined appearance. I’ve also noticed that the Blog has a tendancy to eat his/her emotions when s/he doesn’t get many visitors every day. There’s a chance that s/he got that from me.
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Guess what? This office STILL isn’t finished being painted. It’s like I totally lost my motivation when the living room got completed. Has anyone SEEN my motivation?
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Christmas Random Acts of Kindness are in full swing! At the end of the month, we’re going to report back our tally of what we (Mom, Casey, and I) did for the month of Decemeber. Any chance that one of you would like to buy me the new Nook tablet as a random act of kindness? No? How about a cute purple or pink small laptop? Wow. You guys are SO unkind. 😉
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Now that NaBloPoMo is over, and I’m not “forced” to write every day… I WANT to write every day. I have ideas coming out of every pore on my body. I am energized. So get reading in the coming week you are going to learn 25 Things You Didn’t Know About ME (see yesterday for Casey’s list), you are also going to learn about who I have blog crushes on, about weird places in my house that remind me of things, and when it’s a good idea to forget about self-control. Get EXCITED!
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Well, that’s it for me. My five minutes are up. And my in-laws are coming for dinner. So somebody has got to whip this house into shape. I’m guessing the dogs aren’t up for the job, unless you call serving kibble with a side of beggin’ strips dinner. However Casey always says that he wants to try a beggin’ strip. Yeah, bet you didn’t know THAT about him.
Have a great Sunday, everyone!
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This was my 5 minute Stream of Consciousness Sunday post. It’s five minutes of your time and a brain dump. Want to try it? Here are the rules…

  • Set a timer and write for 5 minutes only.
  • Write an intro to the post if you want but don’t edit the post. No proofreading or spellchecking. This is writing in the raw.
  • Publish it somewhere. Anywhere. The back door to your blog if you want. But make it accessible.
  • Add the Stream of Consciousness Sunday badge to your post.
  • Link up your post below.
  • Visit your fellow bloggers and show some love.
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25 Things You Might Not Know About Me (By Casey)

Happy December everyone!  Congrats to my wife for keeping the blog going on a daily basis, and for allowing me not to have to spell “NaBloPoMo” even once!  I’ll still be keeping up my much slower, every Saturday pace, even with November having concluded (I should be able to manage 😉 ).

Seeing as how the month of November and Jenn’s recent SYNDICATION ON BLOGHER (congrats, again!) got us a lot of new readers and followers, we both thought it might be a good idea to post 25 random facts about ourselves that you may not know.  Look for Jenn’s, coming soon!  But for now, enjoy mine:

1.  I broke my right collar bone in first grade, when I slipped off my bed with some loose covers (while playing, not sleeping).  My teacher, Miss Irice (now Mrs. Tibbits…I assume, I haven’t talked to her since the mid-to-late 80’s) selected two members of my class to be my “bodyguards” on the playground.  They were a bit overzealous, and went after a kid who was just saying “hi” to me and apparently got too close.

2.  I broke my right collar bone again in second grade, when I slipped in a wooden chair and caught the arm underneath my shoulder.

3. I broke my right pinky toe when I was 10, dancing down the hall and flapping my legs to the “Garfield And Friends” theme song (my toe caught a door frame…OUCH!).

4. When I was 16, I was in a pie-eating contest at our high school.  I came in 4th place out of four, didn’t even finish, and almost hurled.

5. When I was about 15, I drank a glass Pepsi bottle full of curdled milk.  I curdled the milk myself by mixing it with Vinegar, for the sole purpose of drinking it.  Teenage boys are dumb most of the time.  It’s just a fact.

6. I was in the school spelling bee in 4th grade.  I was the top speller in my class, and I amazed my classmates repeatedly with how easily I could spell a lot of the harder words during our practices.  I was eliminated from the spelling bee on my first word.

7. Many of you probably know that Jenn was featured on the Today show and I got to be featured with her.  But one cool thing that I don’t think we’ve mentioned is that we’ve spoken to Al Roker.  Backstage in the green room.  Just casually.  As he came out of his dressing room we said “hi”, and he returned our greeting as he went out a door down a set of stairs.  Then a few seconds later, he popped back in and walked by us, and I said “Welcome back!” and Al, just as jovial as ever said back “Yeah, I like taking short trips!” and trotted off.  And as a bonus, we officially talked to somebody who appeared on “Seinfeld”.

8. I don’t think I’ve blogged about this yet (maybe I will in the future), but I didn’t really learn how to ride a bike without training wheels until I was 29.

9. I know a lot of weird pointless trivia about things like cartoons and comics, and also about candy bars.

10. I HATE eggs.  No, actually, I don’t.  I LOATHE them.  Not things that are made with eggs (i.e. most baked goods), but scrambled, fried, poached, etc….I hate.  When I was little, I couldn’t even be in the same room with one without being sick to my stomach.  Now, I can tolerate them, but I don’t like them.  They’re an unborn chicken.  It’s gross.

11. I also don’t like seafood.  The only fish I eat are the white perch I catch during ice fishing season.  I also enjoy a very occassional swordfish steak.  Kind of weird, being that I’ve lived over three decades in a major seafood capital of the U.S., but I guess I’m prone to being weird.

12. I used to watch the Powerpuff Girls (as an adult), and my favorite is Buttercup.  While, I don’t watch it anymore and I just sold my DVDs, I still respect it, and think it’s a great show.

13. Also along the lines of favorites, my favorite Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtle is Michaelangelo.  That spelling of his name that I just used is how his name was always spelled back when I was a kid (versus the Renaissance artist’s name “Michelangelo”).  In recent years, it’s been officially changed to the same spelling as the artist’s name (with just one “a” and it tweaks me out whenever I read it (much to the annoyance of Jenn).

14.  My handwriting sucks.  It’s always sucked.  When I was in first grade, they gave me a special triangle shaped chunk of plastic to put around my pencil as some sort of helping tool.  Didn’t work.  And now that our society has been taken over by keyboards and touchscreens?  My handwriting sucks even more.  My 9th grade English teacheronce watched me write and told me it was “beautiful”.  He also asked me if I like “Dungeons and Dragons” to which I said “yes”.  I think that pleased him, and I’m pretty sure he had some kind of weird man-crush on me.

15. Speaking of nerdy games, I was a huge Role-Playing Game nerd as a teenager.  For those who don’t know, the original “Role-Playing Games” long predate the popular RPG video games such as “Final Fantasy”, “Kingdom Hearts”, etc. and involved a lot of keeping track of stats, dice rolling, and basically sitting around a table “playing pretend”.  I still think it’s an intriguing concept, although not really my thing today.  Some things never leave my brain though, such as “THAC0” means “To Hit Armor Class Zero”.  I can never truly escape my nerdom.

16. I mentioned in my “Hoarding Horror” post that I was into “Heroclix”, which I’m sure meant nothing to at least 99% of the people who read it.  Heroclix is a game of little collectible superhero (and villian) miniatures (think Superman, Spider-Man, etc.) with little stats printed onto their base.  You make a team of them and try to duke it out on a game board with another player’s team (“duking it out” really means “roll dice a lot”).  There are 44 color-coded superpowers, meaning, for example, that when you see a green box on a certain spot on the base, that character has “Super Strength”, brown means “Hypersonic Speed”, etc.  I know them all, and probably will for the rest of my life.  I also had a room totally devoted to the 2,000 or so Heroclix figures that I owned and displayed them all in seven, wall-mounted plexiglass display cases.  The room has been dismantled as part of our selling efforts, but it still gets refered to as “The Heroclix Room”.  Casey=Mega Nerd.

17. I mastered the art of tying a twizzler into a knot with just my tongue, teeth, and the various surfaces of the inside of my mouth.  I don’t know if I still can, but it was pretty cool.

18. I didn’t go to my first rock concert until June of last year (at age 32).  It was Daughtry, a present from Jenn for my birthday, and it RULED.  Even though my ears were still ringing well into the next afternoon.

19. When I was 17, in the early days of the internet, I decided it would be cool to write my own stories about the characters in my favorite video game at the time, Final Fantasy 3.  They became fairly popular, with hundreds of fellow SNES-nerds downloading each one, and around 100 people “subscribing” to them through e-mail.  I still have them, and I’ve been meaning to go back and read them just to see how bad they were.

20. I only got one detention in the entirety K-12.  I forgot to do my Math homework one night and had to stay in during lunch recess with my head down on a desk.  I was quite the rebellous youth.

21. I love astronomy.  I was REALLY into it, when I was a kid, and I still remember a lot of things about it (although some of it has been proven to be incorrect since then…Pluto isn’t a planet? WTF?).  I also took an astronomy class in college, mostly for fun.

22. I was lactose intolerant from when I was 12, until some point before I was 22 (when I decided to try dairy without medication).  My cousin had the same issue as a teenager.  When it first happened, I missed three weeks of school thinking that I had some kind of nasty flu, and of course, drinking an occassional glass of milk whenever I started to feel better.  I had an actual flu a few months later, which messed with the lactose intolerance, and turned into some sort of digestive disorder (“irritable bowel syndrome”, a term I’m told now by my PCP means “we don’t know”).  I missed a month an a half of school because of that.

23. I have never read any of “The Lord Of The Rings” novels, nor have I ever seen an episode of “Gilligan’s Island” or “I Love Lucy” in its entirety.

24. I had a tinsel obsession as a child, and each year when we decorated the Christmas Tree, I would roll around on the floor playing in it.  I was also keep some in a ziploc bag and add to it each year, refering to it as my pet “Silver”.  I had three sandwich bags stuffed full before I stopped.

25. When I was 8 or so, I decided to “take over the house” the same way my favorite cartoon villians were always trying to take over things.  I tied my parents and sisters wrists behind their back with dental floss and then put them in the bathroom.  The bathroom was to be the “prison” of the new evil fortress that I was attempting to turn the house into.  The door didn’t lock, so I used more floss or something wound around the door knob to somehow keep the door from opening easily (in the many years since my retirement as a supervillian, I’ve forgotten how some of my evil inventions work).  I took scotch tape and spread really long pieces across one of the doorways as a big web, a trap that was sure to ensare intruders and hapless dogooders.  My parents bedroom was to become the meeting room where I would go over my evil plans with my imaginary minions.  Unfortunately, it all fell apart when my family stopped playing along  escaped!

And that’s 25 totally random facts about me.  I hope you found at least some of them to be entertaining!  Please note that you can learn many other things by reading previous posts!

Have a good week, everybody!

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Kid Quotes Friday!

Dear Friday- WE LOVE YOU. Why do you make us wait so long for you? I promise your outfit looks fine, you don’t look fat, and you’re not wearing too much make-up…so next time, don’t take so long to get here mmmkay? Thanks!

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Well, it’s Friday so it’s time for some more funny kid quotes! To recap (for those of you who don’t read my every word… and why not?!) I am a social worker. I work primarily with kids, who are super funny. I started collecting some quotes (with just their ages) a couple of years ago and sharing them. People laugh. People enjoy. People ask for more. So I’m bringing them here. On Fridays. When you need to laugh to get through those last eight hours before the weekend! Enjoy!

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Me: What did you put up for Christmas decorations?
Kid: Oh you know….Santa, Rudolph, BG.
Me: BG?
Kid: You know…Baby God! (8 year old)

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“This is my Daddy’s room, he has a stuffed animal too because sometimes Daddies get a teeny weeny bit scared.” (5 year old)

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(while playing Monopoly with a 6 year old)
Me: Okay, well I’m going to buy a house for my property.
Kid: WELL. *I* am not buying a house until I’m married with children!

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“You know Mrs. G, my memory is sort of like a CD player. Sometimes you put the CD in and it starts playing right away. Sometimes you put the CD in and it just says ‘Disc Error'” (12 year old)

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Me: well, school is important if you want to be a lawyer like you said.
Kid: Oh c’mon Jenn, you know I’m just another brick in the wall. (14 year old)

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Me: Wow, you have a new baby sister! That’s great!
Kid: Not really. When she cries she sounds like a dying cat. (7 year old)

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Me: What do you want to be when you grow up?
Kid:  ummmm…probably a unicorn trainer, but it depends on how college goes, you know (6 year old)

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I will wrap up with a quote that is not a kid, but my husband. Close enough
Me: Tell me a story so I can fall asleep…
Casey: Well, this is a story all about how my life got flip-turned upside down…
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Happy Friday, everyone!
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Use Your Voice

“Started in 1988, World AIDS Day is not just about raising money, but also about increasing awareness, fighting prejudice and improving education. 
World AIDS Day is important in reminding people that HIV has not gone away, and that there are many things still to be done.” ~avert.org, 2006

Somewhere around 1990-1991, my Uncle Mike died of AIDS. I was roughly 8 at the time. My memories are few, and this was another skeleton in our family closet. Mostly, I have a distinct memory of lining up all of the stuffed animals he gave me (he always found the BEST ones) and crying in my room. I didn’t get to say goodbye, because the adults in my life didn’t want me to see him so sick. They may have been right, but I still felt sad that I never got to tell him I loved him one more time. My family was in turmoil and conflict over his death (and before). Because of a lot of reasons still unknown to me. Because he was gay. Because he died of AIDS.
But to me?
He was my kind Uncle. He had twinkling blue eyes, and a great laugh. He was gentle.
He was gone too soon.
We haven’t gotten a whole lot better with our judgments and stereotypes around AIDS.
We certainly haven’t found a cure.
What we seem to have found worldwide- is silence. So today, on World AIDS Day, I feel challenged – and I challenge you, to bring AIDS back into the public awareness.
Here are some links to get you started, learn and share.
And if you blog? Maybe blog about it, your words are powerful.
Whatever you choose to do today, don’t be silent.
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Rest in Peace.


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Syndicated on BlogHer!

Oh my goodness. I received an e-mail from Mel at BlogHer today. You know MEL….who writes Stirrup Queens and is in charge of NaBloPoMo over at BlogHer. As I told her in an e-mail, she’s pretty much a celebrity to me. Anyway, they syndicated my Lessons Learned post and you can go look at it on their nifty website over here: http://www.blogher.com/ and the direct link (because I suppose I can’t be on the front of the website forever) is here: http://www.blogher.com/nablopomo-lessons-learned.

Please go support us over there, we’ll love you forever. Or I will. I can’t really speak for Casey because he is in bed again (and I am the ever caring wife, who sent him to bed so  I could work on the blog, he could rest).

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NaBloPoMo: Lessons Learned

We have arrived.

Day 30. Did you hear me?

DAY 30 OF DAILY BLOGGING.

We are rockstars.

Cue “Eye of the Tiger” playing on my iPod. We’ll call it mood music, because today’s post is all about what I’ve learned participating in National Blog Posting Month (NaBloPoMo) through BlogHer. Frankly, I’m not even sure that is what NaBloPoMo stands for, but we’ll go with it. Get comfortable, grab some Ramen noodles (kudos if you get the reference) and let’s rehash all the things I’ve learned through this process.

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1. Community is Awesome. Okay. I mostly knew this already, but the blogging community? IS SUPER AWESOME. I have met so many amazing people through this experience. I have new blog friends that I never would have “met” without this experience. I have learned about how Tricia practices the art of being grateful. And how Kenya is learning to be content in her home state (which next year will also be mine!) I met Rachel, who doesn’t have a blogging niche either, but is still undertaking the challenge. I followed the journey of Molly Jo and was smiling when she learned she didn’t need a schedule to have a good time. And then there is Melissa who has super powers, you know! I met Taylor who shares my love for Christmas music early in the season.

Do you get the picture? I didn’t even meet all of these people through NaBloPoMo, but in my search for inspiration to keep writing every day, I started to participate in other writing communities such as the SITS Girls (can’t wait to be featured!), Write on Edge, and Mama Kat’s Writing Workshop. I joined in on weekly themes such as Heather’s Just Write on Tuesdays, Allison’s Way Back When-sday, and Fadra’s Stream of Consciousness Sunday.

All of these things I never knew existed until I embarked into the adventure of NaBloPoMo.

2.  I’m Good Enough, I’m Smart Enough, and Doggone It, People Like Me! Okay. In all seriousness when I started this off, I had exactly 7 followers on my blog and 17 followers on Twitter. One month later? I’m up to 37 followers on the blog (almost time for that mid-life crisis!) and 74 followers on Twitter. Every post I put up now gets at least one comment! (and yeah, comments aren’t everything, but they do boost the ol’ self-esteem! Oh who am I kidding? Comments are everything!) I can’t take all the credit either, because this is a blog I share with my husband- and although he posts less frequently, everyone has been kind with their comments on his posts and I’m so glad that you all like him, too 😉

3. Blogging is no easy business. When I started this, we blogged sporadically and mostly our Moms read it (hi, Moms!). Now that other people are reading it, I am starting to think more about content, blog statistics, and how I can spread awareness of certain issues through this blog. But it’s not easy. It means keeping up with other people’s blogs, linking up in various formats, and making sure that it is accessible to a wide variety of people. I admire the “professional” bloggers because it’s nothing I’m cut out for. Too much staring mindlessly intently at a computer screen for me. Bravo, bloggers, BRAVO! I intend to keep up regular posting, but daily is just too much. And likely, I will stick with reading and commenting on a few beloved blogs instead of trying to read hundreds.

4. Writing is important to me. Initially, I embarked upon NaBloPoMo to force myself to get back into writing more frequently, therefore abiding by my self-imposed Happiness Project goal. I used to write ALL the time, and I loved it. Then I went through a long period after I got my Master’s degree of refusing to pick up a pen (or keyboard) for anything other than necessary paperwork and e-mails. This adventure has inspired me into dabbling in some creative writing, talking about memories, and painting pictures with words again. I am very thankful for this.

5. Follow through is awesome. Some goals are hard to achieve, and sometimes very hard to keep up with. Although it’s not much in the grand scheme of life, I feel accomplished that I made it to the end of this month, this goal, with all of these other amazing people!

6. I love that November is a 30 day month. Love it. I’m totally on blog vacation tomorrow. For at least a day!

So congratulations to all of you who have finished up NaBloPoMo with me!

Sit back, relax, pat yourself on the back, and celebrate! Anyone got any leftover pie to share?

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Self Portrait

Seconds away from saying “I do.” A year away from having a husband who survived a stroke. A year and a half away from having a miscarriage. 2 years and 3 months away from this moment.

I miss her, some days.

The person who doesn’t know what I know.

But she’s strong.

She’ll be okay.

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Linking up with Write on Edge.

Write on Edge: RemembeRED
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Blank

I am sitting here, staring at the blog post template. I have a blank mind. The hum of the computer, that I typically don’t hear is distracting. The candle that is burning smells like chocolate chip cookies, and it’s distracting me. It’s quiet.

Every time I try and think of a topic, I begin to fill my mind with other thoughts about…

How I hate the blinking cursor on a blank template.

How many things are on my never ending to-do list.

How I have to finish painting in this room.

How my husband went to bed early because he’s sick and I hope he’s asleep. AndI hope I don’t catch it.

How my dogs won’t just settle down tonight, probably because I didn’t have time to walk them today.

How none of the writing prompts I can find are jumping out at me.

How I started to write a post about a scary dream that I used to have as a child and deleted it, because I was bored even while I was writing it.

How grateful I am that my Mom had her yearly appointment with the transplant center today, and her Super kidney is still keeping her NORMAL.

How I need to call my Uncle again and see how he is.

How quickly the refreshment from a four day weekend can leave you on a Monday morning.

How long tomorrow is going to feel.

How I should schedule Wednesday’s post too because tomorrow is going to be so long.

How am I going to fill another blank template?

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Linking up with Heather at The Extraordinary Ordinary
for her weekly gathering of people who are Just Writing! Join us!
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Ish

The other day I caught myself thinking as someone was talking to me, “wow they are being so childish!” and I didn’t mean it in a positive way. In fact, I’m not sure I’ve ever heard that phrase used in a positive way.

But why not?

Children laugh frequently. FULL BELLY LAUGH.

Children are honest (if not a tad blunt).

Children spend hours of their day doing things that make them happy.

Children are curious about the world around them.

Children stop and literally smell the flowers.

Children point out beautiful things that we tend to walk right by.

Children ask questions that matter.

Children make friends easily, and without thinking about politics, race, or religion.

Children are spontaneous (though we often choose to regard it as “impulsive”) with their thoughts, feelings, and hugs.

Children try new things, take risks, and aren’t afraid to fall.

So I say, today – go ahead and be childish. Sounds like a whole lot more fun than being adultish.

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New Christmas Traditions

We have a lot of “traditional” traditions. We bake cookies. We make chex mix. We drink hot chocolate and watch Santa Claus: The Movie on Christmas Eve. We sing Christmas songs. We put flannel sheets on (okay, that more of a winter necessity). We decorate a beautiful tree.

But the last year we’ve started a couple of new traditions. One is that we do not buy many (if any) Christmas presents for each other within my immediate family. Instead we pick a “Christmas Angel” from http://angel.jcpenney.com/angeltree/ and go shopping for a child or two. Last year we wrote stories about who we imagine these people to be and read them on Christmas morning in lieu of opening a million presents. It’s amazing and I love this new tradition. It’s fun to shop for kids who really need it. It’s awesome knowing that somewhere on Christmas morning, children are experiencing a brighter day because of my family. I highly recommend this.
Last year (and I’m kinda letting out a BIG SECRET here, but I want to pass the idea on) we did something called “Random Acts of Kindness”… I made up cards and my Mom, Casey, and I went about spreading holiday cheer. We sent random people flowers (I literally picked people out of a phone book and sent them flowers). We paid for tolls for the people behind us (and had the toll booth people give the next person a card that said “You’ve Been Hit By a Random Act of Kindness! Pass it on!”) We paid for people’s coffee behind us. We walked up main street and filled parking meters that were about to expire. I mailed out Dunkin Donut gift cards to people I picked out of a phone book. We bought Andes mints and put them in random people’s mailboxes. This was the most awesomest adventure EVER. We all giggled nearly every day about the surprised responses we saw, the imagined responses of people just receiving these random gifts in the mail. In all, over the month of Decemeber we committed over 100 random acts of kindness. It was SO much fun. Again, I highly recommend this.
Happy Holidays, everyone! Let the spreading of joy begin! 
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