Letter to a Brand New Baby Girl

Dear New Baby Girl,

In the grand scheme of all things, I haven’t known your parents that long. Only a few years really. A couple of years ago, I watched them dance at their wedding to a song that soon became one of my favorites. It’s a song that is titled “You Are The Best Thing,” and to watching them dance together to it was a moment I love to remember. I suspect that day was the best thing to happen to them as individuals coming together.

Now, I suspect the best thing that has happened to them as a couple – is you.

Get used to getting advice from those who have come before you. I think it’s only human nature to want to pass on advice to the next generations. You won’t listen to most of it – because it’s also human nature to ignore advice and make your own mistakes. And in that process of making your own mistakes, you will learn everything you need to know. And everyone else gets to say “I told you so!” So it’s a win-win.

Instead of a long list of things I’d like to tell you about life, I’ll instead tell you a whole long list of things I wish for you.

I sort of wish “Chuck Norris” would be your first words. It’s sort of fitting, and once you get to know your Mom better, you’ll understand. Maybe audacious would be a good first word, too. I’ll let you choose.

I wish that you will always know how wanted you are, before you were even born! You turned my spit-fire, fabulous, crass, outspoken friend into a mother. And I’ve never seen her happier.

I wish for you to know that being a strong woman has nothing to do with the size of your clothing, or the size of your brain – it has to do with the size of your heart. The ability to stand up for what you believe in, and to stand up for others. The ability to believe in yourself for exactly who you are – instead of what the world believes you should be. You’re going to have a hand up in this arena – you will be surrounded by strong women. But, I’m not going to lie. It will be hard – and sometimes your belief in yourself will waver. Don’t be afraid to reach out and gain strength from those around you – let them be your mirror.

I wish for you, beautiful new-to-the-world baby girl, that your hard work and determination will bring any dream you have to fruition. And to those who may say you can’t do something? Tell them to get out of your way.

Because I can already tell – you’re a doer. A go-getter. A dreamer. With red hair and kick ass parents.

Welcome to the world, little one.

We’re lucky to have you.