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Category Archives: adoption
How I Will Love You
I will love you with little notes written just for you, and hidden where only you will find them. I will love you with surprise hugs, and buying your favorite dinner without you asking. I will love you with clean … Continue reading
‘Round Here…
Spring in North Carolina is out of control beautiful. Here’s some pictures from the last couple of weekends! Wilmington is home of the Azalea Festival, which was this week. These gorgeous flowers are EVERYWHERE around town, in different colors. Beautiful! … Continue reading
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Life Lessons
I’ve been thinking a lot about life lessons since Jenn asked me to write stories about history with my family. At the time I didn’t recognize events as a lesson on anything. Come to find out I learned all kinds … Continue reading
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News
Hi, everyone. Or… hi Jen, Jennifer, Sarah, Allegra, Diana, Karli, Molly Jo and Kenya. Hehe. Sorry about the blog-neglect. Don’t turn me in. It’s not that I haven’t thought about you all. And I’m still reading your blogs. From my … Continue reading
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You Are Not Our Second Choice
You were always part of our family plan. And as life has probably already taught you, life takes our “plans” and laughs at them. We are thrown challenges, changes, and so many curve-balls. Our well thought out plans become nothing … Continue reading
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Tagged adoption, family, hope, letter to our child, love, waiting
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A New Year Plunge
Some people jump into the ocean on New Year’s Day. Some people run through the snow barefoot. Us? We took a different kind of plunge this year. This plunge? It’s a game changer.
The Ultimate Sacrifice
I’ve worked with a lot of children in the past five years. I’ve worked with children who have been hurt, emotionally and physically by their biological parents. I’ve written statements that in the end will support a court or child … Continue reading
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The Cost of Moving Forward
Deciding what path to take when you’re in the midst of infertility is sort of like walking into a casino, and pouring $20,000 (or more) into one of four or five slot machines and hoping you picked the right one. … Continue reading








