Once upon a time, a Baby Girl was born.
She grew up among many Country Roads, in the great state of Vermont, Somewhere in Between Canada and the rest of the United States.
Her parents wished many things for her. They wished in her life that No Rain would fall, and that she would experience nothing but Peace and Love. Her mother often said, you can always Count on Me, and as they took wild road trips together she would sing to the little girl, Have I Told You Lately That I Love You? (Sometimes they would even get lost, because they didn’t really know The Way).
For the early years in this young girl’s life, she was a Daydream Believer, and spent most of her days Footloose and fancy free. Life taught many harsh lessons early on, about death, loss, cancer, mortality and how sometimes you just Can’t Cry Hard Enough. Some of these experiences left her Bitter and wishing that she was Somebody Else. She cried for the people that she missed, taken too soon- often whispering to them in the dark, before she fell asleep, Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again. But they weren’t, and somehow the little girl and her family would have to figure out how to Float On through life without them.
In high school she was a Goody Two Shoes and hung out with a lot of Misfits (still does), but their True Colors were beautiful, and as a group they had immeasurable amounts of fun, singing together at their senior prom, I’ve Had The Time of my Life.
After Graduation, there were a lot of tears as the little girl left the state of Vermont and drove to Maine for college. But they all knew it was coming, after all, These Boots are Made For Walking. Her mother accompanied her to Maine, to help her move in and carry loads of boxes up three flights to her new dorm room. As her mother drove away, her words of wisdom “Don’t Stop Believin’” lingering in the air, the little girl who was now a young woman embarked upon a new life. She knew, if it didn’t work out, she could always return home. After all, Who Says You Can’t Go Home?
There are a lot of lessons the young woman learned in her time at college. Life is nothing but Shades of Gray and you really spend a lot of time Hanging on for Hope, especially in the early days of living on your own, when you’re really doing nothing more than Living on a Prayer and splitting a cup of ramen three ways. Her best friend moved to Maine to live with her, which was a blessing, because her best friend was always saying to the young woman I’ll Be There For You, and she was – no matter what.
College was a powerful experience. She met like-minded people, and learned that a social work career was The Only Way that felt right to her. She spent a lot of time during both her bachelors and masters degree hoping that her example would say to others – I Dare You To Move, to make a difference- to stop the routine of being little more than Ants Marching, and make a change in society.
There was several more life lessons learned during this period. Painful moments- one of them being when the young woman almost lost her Mom. One day, when her Mom was Barely Breathing, she whispered to her Mother that she would always be her Sword and Shield and begged her, pleading “Have a Little Faith in Me.” Her Mother is strong, and she survived thanks to a stubborn will to live and a lifesaving gift from the young woman’s best friend (who is always the young woman’s Bridge Over Troubled Water). The young woman also had friends in her masters program that were amazing supports during this period of time, (she often thought – hey! These are Loser(s) Like Me!)
The day that she graduated with her masters degree, her mother was there, alive and “normal.” The young woman was 26, and in her head she could think nothing more than This Is The Moment.
In this time period, she learned a lot about love, too. Good and bad. She learned about people who would hurt you (but then again Everybody Hurts), and you could do nothing more than learn the lesson and Hold On. Then, when she was 25 she met a young man. Together, they grew into A Groovy Kind of Love, and knew that they were Better Together than they would ever be apart. It became clear that this was the real deal, and the young woman thought to herself The Search is Over, and she would whisper to him in the dark after he fell fast asleep –” there is no Life After You.“
One night, the young man fell to his knees, in the corner of his kitchen where he and the young woman had just been dancing. He opened a ring box and whispered Marry Me, and in that moment the young woman cried knowing this moment was the Best of What’s Around. 6 months later, on a beautiful day in September, the young girl walked down the aisle and said I Do, knowing in her heart that With Love We Will Survive. At the reception they laughed, danced, and even took time to Walk Like An Egyptian.
The young woman went on after college to work mostly with children. She also worked with their parents, who often yelled you Can’t Change Me! But change is made in small increments, as she desperately tries to convey that despite what many adults think Children Will Listen. And although at times she finds her job Impossible, it’s not really. And there are days when she feels so elated in her work, that she can practically Defy Gravity.
The young woman and the young man live together in Maine, now often thinking to themselves – “I have Carolina On My Mind.” Because soon, they will be moving to North Carolina (which they want to do In A Big Way), with the young woman’s mother, to continue the adventure called life. They are also wishing on a Lucky Star and hoping that one day they will have a family of their own. The young woman often thinks of the baby she lost in an early miscarriage, and often whispers to this child “I wish I could Hold You in My Arms.”
Life is nothing but an open road for this young woman, who was once a little girl. She has had many Seasons of Love, times when she couldn’t pay the RENT, and times when she could barely figure out how to keep Breathing. But she is strong, she is brave, and she dares the world with her words- Send Me On My Way.
Have a Nice Day, everyone!
Sincerely, Me
The Story of my Life – Bon Jovi
Baby Girl – by Will Hoge
Country Road – by John Denver
Somewhere in Between – by Lifehouse
No Rain – Blind Melon
Peace and Love – Blessed Union of Souls
Count on Me – Tonic
Have I Told You Lately? – Rod Stewart
The Way- Fastball
Daydream Believer – The Monkees
Footloose – Kenny Loggins
Can’t Cry Hard Enough – The Williams Brothers
Somebody Else – Bleu
Wishing You Were Somehow Here Again – The Phantom of the Opera
Float On – Modest Mouse
Goody Two Shoes – Adam Ant
Misfits – Third Eye Blind
True Colors – Cyndi Lauper
I’ve Had The Time of My Life – Jennifer Warner
Graduation – Vitamin C
These Boots Are Made For Walking – Nancy Sinatra
Don’t Stop Believin’ – Journey
Who Says You Can’t Go Home? – Bon Jovi
Shades of Gray – The Monkees
Hanging on for Hope – The New Amsterdams
Living on a Prayer – Bon Jovi
I’ll Be There for You – The Remberandts
I Dare You To Move – Switchfoot
The Only Way – Ellis Paul
Ants Marching – Dave Matthews Band
Barely Breathing – Duncan Sheik
Sword and Shield – Sister Hazel
Have a Little Faith in Me – John Hiatt
Bridge Over Troubled Water – Simon and Garfunkel
Loser Like Me – GLEE
This is the Moment – Jeckyll and Hyde
Everybody Hurts – REM
Hold On- Wilson Phillips
A Groovy Kind of Love – Phil Collins
Better Together – Jack Johnson
The Search is Over – Survivor
Life After You – Daughtry
Marry Me – Train
Best of What’s Around – Dave Matthews Band
September – Daughtry
I Do – Better than Ezra
(Lift) With Love We Will Survive – Flickerstick
Walk Like An Eygptian – The Bangles
Can’t Change Me – Chris Cornell
Children Will Listen – Into the Woods
Impossible – Cinderella
Defy Gravity – Wicked!
Carolina On My Mind – James Taylor
In a Big Way – Darius Rucker
Lucky Star- Madonna
Hold You In My Arms – Ray Lamontagne
Seasons of Love – RENT
RENT – RENT
Breathing – Lifehouse
Send Me On My Way – Rusted Root
Have a Nice Day – Bon Jovi
Sincerely, Me – Better Than Ezra










Amazing use of songs!! Loved it!!
Wow- I'm so impressed with this! What a cool idea, one I wish I could replicate (with my own story, of course).
Aww, I love this idea for a post. I often feel like I want to score the soundtrack to my life too.
So much fun! I've been given a couple of mixed tapes in my lifetime…I wonder if I could make a post out of one of them! (A girlfriend once gave me a tape for after a bitter break-up…that would be interesting!)
Awesome, creative post! I might have to try to do this for myself. (My mixed tapes from high school are pretty much legendary.) Thanks for sharing and good luck with your move! That's a big change from Maine and Vermont. 🙂
What a great list of songs! I love how you set them against your life. These song bring back so many memories!
Jenn – thank you for paying tribute to our life in songs. We still remain famous for our sudden bursts into song from a sentence that triggers lyrics. Way cool post. Love you. MOM
This post made me think of staff song tapes and amazing homemade cd's. I sill have one that you made me. This next generation will miss out on the wonder and magic of making and receiving mixed tapes and cds. You're awesome.