There are a lot of things that make us who we are. People, places, things, experiences, jobs, love, loss.
Today, I remember and honor one of the people who made me who I am today. I wore her earrings on my wedding day. In my closet still hangs her sweater she used to wear all of the time. I have a bottle of her perfume, because when she died I was terrified about not being able to remember how she smelled, and what her voice sounded like. I cannot have more time with her, but I can value and treasure the time that I did have. The sleepovers in her bed, popcorn and movies, buffalo wings from the Grand Union, gardening, going for walks, time spent in the greenhouse, watching Regis & Kathy Lee, and her willingness to be my pen pal for years. I remember you today, and every day Grammie Pat. I am proud to have known the woman you were, and I know that you are with me in my heart. I am proud that part of where I come from – is you. Happy Birthday.
